Monthly Archives: July 2009

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I really love …

500 Days of Summer.

This was a film I’d been looking forward to seeing with my friend Ellen for months. To the point where she could have set her clock to the weekly e-mails I sent to her along the lines of: “3 more weeks … 2 more weeks … 1 more week ’til we see 500 Days!” It was soo awesome to finally see it with her last weekend, only to discover a film that came in a cardboard box of perfection, wrapped with perfect silver wrapping paper and topped with a silver glittery bow of perfectness. (Yes, I really did love it that much, almost as much as this guy did.) What can I say — to “get” this movie is to “get” me. Ever have a film like that?

3 things (for me) that made it great:

1) The actors. Helllooo Joseph Gordin-Levitt - nice to see you again. What’s it been? 10 years since I crushed on you in 10 Things I Hate About You? Well, the crush is back. On you, on your deep little voice and those cute little cardigans you drape yourself in for this film. And Zooey Deschanel - oh Zooey. You are a girl after my heart with your voice, your throw-back style and the way you make me want to watch you in everything — even cotton commercials. Do you have to live in Hollywood? ‘Cause I really think we could be friends if you didn’t.

2) The music. This is a film built around its soundtrack. It was 15 songs perfect for the occasion for which I had to own immediately upon hearing (I think the last two films I’ve ever done that with were Once and Almost Famous).

3) The way it was shot. Chick flicks are a dime a dozen. But this film is so far beyond the cliched plot of a 27 Dresses (and heck, I own that movie!) The editing was creative, the way the story played out was unique and the fact this was a story that felt true (Joseph and Zooey have CRAZY chemistry) and ended true made it that much more memorable (and dude-friendly :) ).

If you’re looking for a flick to see — and if this comes your way — DEFINITELY go. It’s the little indie that could! Need more convincing? Check out this trailer:

The Grosh Family

Have I mentioned yet that I love this family? Because if I haven’t, let me remind everyone that I LOVE THIS FAMILY.

When you work with someone, you often are privy to all that goes on in their lives and it goes without saying that Stacey’s life is certainly family-oriented. When we leave work every day, she’s usually on the phone with one of her girls — be it on the receiving end of a daily update, giving them a recipe for dinner, or finding out who has soccer or drama practice for the night. Having had the privilege on several occasions now to hang out with the Grosh family, I can attest that theirs is a house filled with love. And Harry Potter. And pets they love. And books — LOTS and LOTS of books. So all in all, it’s not a bad place to spend your childhood. Am I right, Cassie, Madi, and Chloe? :)

Stace, your friendship has been a blessing in my life. I hope you enjoy these photos as much as I enjoyed editing them. And Gannon, your pick of song choice for the SLIDESHOW? PERFECT! :)

This was one of the first images I took of the night. As soon as I saw it in the viewfinder, I knew we were going to be in for a fun evening.

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When kids come in the picture, it seems like the first to go are photographs of the couple that made them happen. Stacey, you and Gannon will have to make room on the shelf with your wedding photo for these two! Laughter and love, is there anything better in life, I ask? :)

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Hey Stace, walk your bootie down to AC 215 and talk to me about making a stand-out print of this one. Isn’t it GORGEOUS? What a beautiful family.

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Uh oh… Chloe’s gonna give me some competition in a few more years. This girl is always taking photographs. Reminds me of me at that age …

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This is a family that loves to read and when I suggested this next photo, they were all about it. ( I should add that when I joined Stace, Gannon and their girls at the midnight showing of Twilight last fall (yes, Stace is the one who got me hooked on the series and yes, she is a wicked cool mother for letting her daughters go to a midnight showing), all FIVE of them were waiting patiently in their seats for the show to start, noses buried in books. Meanwhile, I was joining the other 450 girls in the theater, giggling and texting and acting dopey over seeing Rob Pattinson on the big screen. Goes to show who has more maturity when talk turns to a certain vampire — haha!

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I love that when I asked the girls to “hop on pop”, this is how they landed — no prompting on my end whatsoever.

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On, now that’s just cuteness, right there …

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When I asked if the girls would want to be photographed with something in their lives that they love right now, it was another not-to-be-missed opportunity. And the best part of all? It resulted in these next 3 photographs that are SO these girls. I wish you could meet them. I promise they are as sweet and fun as they appear to be!

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I have one sister that I am so grateful for. We’re far apart in age, but close in heart. So I know what the bond of sisterhood means. And I think you couldn’t put it into words any better than these two images right here. (I don’t even think I need to add how much I wish I had photographs like this of me and Karin growing up … it goes without saying).

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Thanks again Grosh family — hope we can do this again some day soon!

I really love …

The Collected Works of T.S. Spivet, a book I just finished by newcomer author Reif Larsen.

I’d had my eye on this one for a few months, having spotted an article in my Vanity Fair about how Larsen (who, I must admit, had me at hello-book-cover-jacket) submitted his debut novel for consideration only to induce a publishers’ war, landing a near 7-figure book deal. Oh yeah, did I mention he’s like, MY AGE?

In a nutshell, the story follows the life of 12-year-old T.S. Spivet, a inquisitive boy on a journey from his family’s Montana ranch to the Smithsonian in Washington, D.C. to collect a prestigious award he’s received for his map-making skills. The catch is, the Smithsonian doesn’t know he’s a child and his parents don’t know he’s leaving as T.S. sneaks away to travel to the capital hobo-style by rail car.

The plot is charming and warm (Stephen King describes it as one part Mark Twain, one part Little Miss Sunshine) and there are some true laugh-out loud moments (including an ode to the old game of Oregon Trail that left me doubled over in laughter). The best part of the book? The way Larsen annotated it with T.S.’s work. It’s a book so unique and original, talking about it doesn’t do it justice alone so I had to bring my love for it in pictures to the blog.

If you’re looking for something to read this summer, check it out. And when Oprah makes it a pick for her book club, well, you and I can both say we beat her to it, eh? :)

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The Grosh Family: Sneak Peek

She first suggested it months ago. “Gail, at some point, I really want you to take my family’s portraits,” Stacey said.

To which I said, “Sure thing, Stace. Sure thing.”

Stacey, I must add, is one of my best good friends at Ball State — a co-worker with whom I bond over life, its happenings, and our mutual affinity for all things Twilight-related. A few weeks ago, we circled back to her initial request and made an evening out of piling into their SUV, a gaggle of girls in the backseat with me and my trusty camera alongside.

Today, when I showed Stace a different sneak peek of her and her hubby together, she said, “I just hope you were able to get one photo of me and Gannon with the girls where we’re all smiling.”

To which I say, “Sure thing, Stace. Sure thing.”

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I am grateful …

To be a woman coming of age in the 21st century.

I am grateful that this means I can have a career, launch a business on my own, and have a husband who encourages me every step of the way.

I am grateful that, in my life, I can come home to a significant other who has made our bed on his own day off. Done the dishes. And folded his and my laundry both. All without having been asked.

I am grateful that my marriage is a partnership and I’m able to reap its rewards — one clean pair of socks at a time.

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I really love …

Hand-written letters.

When I was a kid, I had quite a few obsessions. Books, chapstick (Bonne Bell is still my fave), Barbies (hey, cut me some slack!), New Kids on the Block and pen pals. At one time, I think I was writing to a dozen people across the globe. It’s funny now … I bet if you asked a 10-year-old to address an envelope and attach a stamp, she’d look at you as if you were growing tentacles from atop your head.

When Nick and I got married three years ago, what started as a series of thank yous with an old friend grew into and to this day remains an every-other-month kind of correspondence. Every few weeks, I know to expect another note from my childhood friend, Kathleen, her beautiful penmanship heralding the arrival of our one form of communication with each other.

I crank out e-mails with the best of ‘em (seriously, if we can have hot dog eating championships, why not speed typing?) but there’s something to be said for taking the time to get in touch with someone by snail mail. When I sit down to write Kathleen back, I pull out my old box of stationery and each time, I get a little giddy inside when I see all the old stickers and stamps and letterhead I’ve toted with me over the years. And while I’m usually cursing a cramped end by the time I add a signature to my own three-pager, it’s a reminder that when it comes to communicating with someone, often times there’s no substitute for the (hand)written word.

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PS — Speaking of all things hand-written, a special shout-out to a recent bride, Gaylena, for sending me a FABULOUS hand-written thank you note! You are so sweet!

Cole and a little Lady Gaga

So here’s what I know with certainty about my good friend Cole:

1) He has great taste in music. If I was asked to pick one iPod in ALL of Muncie to ransack, it’d definitely be his. This is the fella I can count on to join me when I want to go hear some indie artist Nick is all “Huh? Who?” about but also the fella who, if I had to go stag to a wedding, I’d bring along because Cole and I? Yeah, I’m pretty sure we’d shake it all night long.

2) He is a bibliophile like me. Unlike me, Cole is studying literature, which means he’s spent part of his summer having read Ulysses AND Moby Dick (and I don’t mean started and put down, never to pick back up again, I mean actually finished). To this I say in my very best Wayne Campbell impersonation, “Cole, I’m not worthy.” (And for anybody out there I’ve already recommended it to, The Book Thief was introduced to me by Cole. What’s that you say? Never heard of it? I implore you, GO READ IT ALREADY. Change your life, that book will).

3) He is popular. Like, 800-plus friends on Facebook popular. So when I called him up a few weeks back to see if he could help me out as I continued practicing my off-camera lighting techniques, I wasn’t sure if we could make a shoot happen. Somehow, in the back of my mind, I just envision that his is a social calendar booked through 2010.

We DID make it happen (giving up a night of watching one of our favorite mutual television programs to do so) and oh what a blast we had. I knew I could count on Cole to keep me company, to be relaxed in front of the camera and to bust a few moves when I broke out the lights. He never did tell me what exactly he was playing on his iPod that evening, but I can attest this guy gives great “Poker Face.:) Cole, thanks for being your AWESOME self!

Cole is a California dreamer (only, unlike me, I think he’ll actually wind up there some day), so I wanted to give him a little SoCal flavor in these photos. I think we succeeded!

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Cole and I have also bonded over a love of working out. We also have mutual affection for the Biggest Loser Trainers (Bob or Jillian? Bob or Jillian? DON’T MAKE ME CHOOSE), and I like to tell him I think he could be Bob’s younger brother. Do you see it here too? :)

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If Cole’s laughing, I promise you I’m laughing behind the camera too :)

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ANNNDDDD…we’re back to serious. Cole, I believe you do serious very, very well

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Tunes time! (and if you guessed that I love a parking garage, bravo!) And photog peeps, you know how awesome it is to have a friend willing to do this stuff with you, don’t you? HA!

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If you’re thinking Cole looks like a fun guy to be with, you’d be 100 percent correct!

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Thanks again for your help Cole! Hope to see a few of these on your Facebook page! Let’s do lunch when you’re back from camp (if your other chums haven’t already beaten me to it :) )

I want to smuggle my nephews home in suitcases …

Earlier this month, Nick and I made the trip over to Cincinnati to help his sister and her family celebrate the first birthday of one of our newest nephews, Benjamin. Now, this trip was also meant to be a photo session for Ben and his big brother, Sam, but, well … the rain decided it didn’t want to cooperate. As luck would have it, Aunt Gail had her camera on hand (of COURSE she did :) ) and a few requisite shots (you HAVE to have a photo of your first birthday cake!) were taken.

I’m not sure what’s sweeter about this image — the yummy cake or the cuteness overload that is Ben.

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Nick’s mom gets the grandkids these fantastic monogrammed comfy chairs from Pottery Barn for their first birthdays. Clearly Ben is enjoying his (and his big brother can have his back now too!)

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It may have been Ben’s birthday, but big brothers deserve a little present too, right?

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Ben is seriously one of the happiest babies I’ve ever met. I love, love, LOVE it when I’m quick enough to capture that fantastic grin of his

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And finally, let me just preface this photograph by saying NO I’m not pregnant and NO Nick and I are not intending to start our family any time soon (I’m still growing a business, people!) but dang it all if seeing my handsome husband with a kid on his lap doesn’t make my heart get all mushy on the inside. Seriously, HOW CUTE ARE THEY? :)

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I really love …

Miso soup.

Growing up, I was spoiled with a mother who was a wonderful cook. My childhood was one with few “bologna sandwich” kind of nights because mom could always be counted on to whip up a yummy casserole or meatloaf for the family. But there wasn’t a lot of experimentation in the Koch kitchen. Now that I’m adult, I have fun branching out when it comes to cuisine and exploring aisles of the grocery store that might have made me grimace as a kid (my idea of Chinese food back then was La Choy chop suey with those crunchy canned chow mein noodles on top — ha!).

A while back, my amazing yoga instructor passed off her recipe for miso soup and I knew I wanted to give it a try. And wow… pretty much THE easiest concotion I’ve ever thrown together. Three-fourths cup boiling water, a tablespoon of miso (I bought mine at Meijer but I’d like to branch out and try some from a Japanese market in Indy or online), a handful of scallions and a few chunks of tofu and voila!

For the skeptics: No, it’s not yucky. It tastes a lot like a yummy broth, the kind that would sound good to you on a day you just want to curl up on the couch. No, the tofu isn’t gross either. If you’ve ever experimented with tofu, you know the great thing is that it takes on whatever the dominant taste of your dish is. So in this case, the broth.

For those willing to give it a try: This is a GREAT quick pick-me-up kind of meal (it’s been my lunch for the past week and seriously takes me 5 minutes to make) and it’s LOADED with nutrients. In Japan, about 40 percent of the population eats miso soup for breakfast every morning and those Japanese know a thing or two in the health department. Studies show women who eat soy (which miso is a derivative of) once a week cut their breast cancer risk up to 50 percent. WOW!

And the true culinary test? Nick ate it. So if my husband likes it, well, Internet, that’s saying something.

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Ashley and Jeremy: The Wedding

I’m not sure I have the right words to cap the way I feel about this wedding (what’s that they say about a picture being worth 1,000 of them? :) ) but I do know I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention what it is I love about this couple.

I love that Ashley was such a confident bride (after 9 years together, she KNEW she wanted this man!). I love how much creativity and thought she put into her big day, all in an effort to make it unique. And even more so, I love how her eyes lit up when she told me about all these details — from the umbrellas (all her idea) to that beautiful veil and headpiece of hers. Most of all, I love how much she basked in the moments of her wedding day. Hers was one filled with little stress, many laughs, and lots and lots of love and I’m pretty sure that’s what every bride hopes it to be.

And what I love about Jeremy is how much he loves this woman who’s now his wife. I love how willing he was to take whatever photos I asked of him, namely because he knew how much doing so would mean to Ashley. And so he’d smile and turn, and smile and turn and look like the dashing fella that he is and that I’ve always remembered him to be.

Ashley and Jeremy, your nupitals were a long time coming, but I can think of few weddings that were as much fun as yours. You’ve spoiled me with this incredible experience, the kind that reminds me of how lucky I am to help my clients remember this important day of theirs to the fullest.

Best wishes on your marriage and a beautiful life on that fantastic farm of yours! And if you’re oohing and awwing over how attractive these two are (and how they had the perfect day for their wedding), then WATCH THE SLIDESHOW to experience more of it!

If you are friend or family of the bride and/or groom and want to see all the proof images from their wedding day, click here.

Ashley loves orchids. Which just happens to be Reason No. 263 as to why I love her :)

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A few more of the beautiful details (and don’t think the fact her colors perfectly match my blog have gone unnoticed by moi!)

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If I post too many photos of this gal, forgive me. It’s only because a) she’s so gosh darn beautiful and b) I like to squeeze as much joy into one blog post as possible. Mission accomplished ….

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A bird cage veil? YES PLEASE! (this is one of ‘If I could redo my wedding day I would so totally consider this option’ moments I sometimes have at another person’s wedding). How much do you all love this shot of her? Because I know I DO!

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Oh, now this is just cuteness right here. Sometimes it’s the candid moments that make for the best photographs.

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Don’t think I’ve forgotten this HOT GROOM! (Hot may also be the adjective of choice to describe the weather this day - woo whew was it warm!)

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“And I was also thinking about buying umbrellas for the girls…” ASHLEY YOU ARE A GENIUS

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I love that moment right before a father walks his daughter down the aisle. Perhaps it’s because it makes me think of my dad and all the other fellas who have to pull themselves together before they can give their little girl away

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HANDS DOWN ONE OF MY FAVORITE IMAGES I’VE EVER TAKEN*

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*I have to add a disclaimer and add that this one is RIGHT UP THERE TOO

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Perfect sky. Perfect clouds. Perfect couple. Perfect day.

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So sweet, this image …

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And a wheat field too? I hit the wedding photographer jackpot with this event (and doesn’t Ashley look FIERCE here? :) )

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These girls were so much fun — the whole wedding party, actually!

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Ashley and Jeremy, thank you for trusting me to capture your wedding day. Ashley, your belief in my abilities gave me confidence at a time I really needed it, and I’ll always be forever grateful to you for it!

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